Seeking Soulmate + Kin's Domain Ibolya Veress
Seeking Soulmate + Kin's DomainAge: 47 years
Country: Romania
State/Province: Prahova
City: Cuib
About Me:
Hi! You can call me Livy. I am born and lived all my life in Romania, have sekler origin (considered as hungarian minority).
I am a restless person, as wou people who know me describe it 🙂 have not found my life mission or my place yet, but have been very busy exploring alternatives. At 46 this might seem a much too adventurous life approach, if so, please move on.
Since I know myself, I was drawn to nature and wildlife. Fortunately, had a grandfather figure during childhood, an old-fashion hunter, who took me out in the wild and thought me everything he knew. We were quite inseparable for a while.
I would have liked a veterinary career, but it was denied. I became a teacher instead, than economist. Nature stayed in my life as mountain hikes during college. Afterwards as a perfectionist, (raised so and by) , wanted the usual succes: family, career, house, car, vacations. Yeah, you can guess it never happened, or was only partially 🙂 Nature was far behind in memory and reach, as a dreamlife maybe...In my second marriage wanted a kid at 33, but was declared sterile. I was loosing it, so started to seek solutions. It began with Reiki, than a lot followed. Includind the books "Ringing cedars.." At one point, I divorced (as my dreams and aspirations were considered unsustainable) and pursued to education as vet assistant and a long-distance learning programme in animal assisted activities/therapy. I became vegan, meanwhile. Got a labrador puppy (I had a cat-rescue home already in my rented apartment in the city), trained her and also started to learn horses at a farm. Rebonded with my beloved mountains. Before I could start a real job with animals included, got pregnant -at 37! So, there I was, looking for a home in countryside for me and my cats and dog, jobless, expecting a baby without a father figure (he drew back totally). Well, made some considerable efforts that later cost me, but finally, in 2017 got to move into a house near Brasov with baby boy and my animals. After two years resumed teaching and gave up vegan diet. Meanwhile entered other realms of foraging edible wild plants, natural remedies for animals and my family, zoopharmacognosy, essetial oils, red light, energy medicine, holistic medicine whatsoever.
I resigned in 2022 and tried to buy a piece of land on my own (did not find a man with same ideas or willing/considering it possible) and build shelter on it with natural materials. This did not went well, so I am on a second sabatic year, living away from people (as mush as a schooler boy lets-unschooling is not an option for single mom with no material backing). I live on a former deserted property bought by friends, they considered at some point moving and forming a community, but gave up the idea. They built a summer-vacation cabin and that's it. The old houses are in an advanced grade decay stage, so I am on the move by next year. Originally considered a 4 years stay, but lack of natural water source and extreme hot summer, with no possibility of natural gardening without great intervention on the land (it's all slopes and wildbushy) makes it impossible for me. No income possibility also, I seem not to be able to find online remote job either.
So, yeah, still I am is all I have and moving on towards working again in the system as long as it takes to find my place. Relationships I've tried to build did not stand as I have a strong sense of independence, despite the fact I barely thrive-but I do. I cannot stand the idea of being pittied, not listened to, in need of saving or considered mostly an asset or a tool in order to fulfill a man's needs and dreams. But hey, life without love is like a vale boat without vales...I do not give up on finding my soulmate.
